Why do people change?
When people treat you like they don't care, believe them.
Because people will notice the change in your attitude towards them, but won't notice their behaviour that made you change.
Some people suddenly change. One day you are important, next day you're worthless. And that is when you see a person's true colours: when you are no longer fruitful in their life.
Maybe sometimes people did not actually change. Maybe you just never knew who they really were.
But then you see, people constantly change. So don't ever think you fully know someone.
Why do people change then? For a reason always. Either they have learnt a lot, or they are hurt a lot.
Why is it so difficult to understand, that there is a story behind every person. There is a reason why they are the way they are. Why can we not think about that, and respect them for who they truly are?
Sometimes it is wise to give up on people. Not because you don't care, but because they don't care. So never be afraid of losing people. Be afraid of losing yourself by trying to please everyone around you.
What most people need to learn in life is, how to love people and use things, instead of using people and loving things.
People need to understand that their actions do affect other people. So being careful about what to say and do, makes them believe, that it's not always just about you.
Because after all, IT'S NOT ALWAYS JUST ABOUT YOU.
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